Difference in thought process of North Indians and South Indians:
Don't take me wrong in differentiating, but read it completely, you will find it is true.
Most of the parents and families in south India, they just want to complete their children's education in good schools,plus 2 from a corporate college and they want their children to complete their graduation from reputed colleges and secure a good job with a good salary. Especially South indian parents feel that if their children choose a different path apart from engineering/medicine, they feel as if that they are doing crime or throwing their children into dumping yard. The thing Is that they don't consider the interest of their children, though parents always think for the bright future of children, but its nit a right thing. I'm not saying that it happens in each and every family but more than 85+% of families especially in south Indians feel in this manner.
When in come to most of the north Indian families about 60-70%, there is an encouragement from the family to the interests of their children. They aim at becoming good managers, great entrepreneurs.
I can give an example for this, when we take the examples of CEO's of world famous companies, Google's CEO sundar pichai he is from Chennai, Microsoft CEO Satya Nadella from Hyderabad, PepsiCo CEO, Indra nooyi, from Chennai, ICICI bank CEO, chanda kochar from Kerala, like these many top positions in corporate sectors are held by South Indians and north Indians as well. Our south Indians are just remaining as good employees,CEO's. Though its a proud thing we have to think to some more extent.
When it comes to north Indians, we can take the example of famous business people in India. If we see top 10 richest people in India, we find only a single person in that top 10 from south india. Mukesh Ambani of RIL, Dilip sangwi of Sun pharma, Azim premji of Wipro, Adi goedrej of Goedrej, Sunil Mittal of Airtel, like these we find all the people from north Indians.
What our middle class parents and most of the south indian families think is, if their children get a job in good corporate office or govt job,they think that the life of their children is beautiful. But in real sense, it doesn't work. Without lack of passion in the job or work they do, they can't grow fast in their field,if they do grow,they don't have satisfaction. That's the reason why we find domination of north Indians in all the fields. Maximum of Them enter the fields in which they are interested.
Many north Indians, don't work for money, instead they make money work for them. But we most of south Indian families end up in working for money and always end up in paying some or the other loans throughout lives.
If we want something more, suppose if we need to earn more money, we have to spend money for others. If you want to be happy, you have to make others happy, so that u will feel more happy. This is what most of billionaires do. The pay back to the society, but they still earn more and more than what they spend, that is secret of earning, and it implicates all the things which we need more. Example: Bill gates, warren buffet and Azim premji, these 3 people always stand first in philanthropy but they still stand in the same positions though they paid back huge amounts to the needy.
The conclusion here is,
1. Enter the field which u r interested in, not what others say to do especially like south indian families does to do something to earn and live.
2. Make money work for you but don't work for money.
3. If u want something more, Pay back to the society some part of it. So that u can become rich in that. Either it may be happiness, money e.t.c.,
Don't take me wrong in differentiating, but read it completely, you will find it is true.
Most of the parents and families in south India, they just want to complete their children's education in good schools,plus 2 from a corporate college and they want their children to complete their graduation from reputed colleges and secure a good job with a good salary. Especially South indian parents feel that if their children choose a different path apart from engineering/medicine, they feel as if that they are doing crime or throwing their children into dumping yard. The thing Is that they don't consider the interest of their children, though parents always think for the bright future of children, but its nit a right thing. I'm not saying that it happens in each and every family but more than 85+% of families especially in south Indians feel in this manner.
When in come to most of the north Indian families about 60-70%, there is an encouragement from the family to the interests of their children. They aim at becoming good managers, great entrepreneurs.
I can give an example for this, when we take the examples of CEO's of world famous companies, Google's CEO sundar pichai he is from Chennai, Microsoft CEO Satya Nadella from Hyderabad, PepsiCo CEO, Indra nooyi, from Chennai, ICICI bank CEO, chanda kochar from Kerala, like these many top positions in corporate sectors are held by South Indians and north Indians as well. Our south Indians are just remaining as good employees,CEO's. Though its a proud thing we have to think to some more extent.
When it comes to north Indians, we can take the example of famous business people in India. If we see top 10 richest people in India, we find only a single person in that top 10 from south india. Mukesh Ambani of RIL, Dilip sangwi of Sun pharma, Azim premji of Wipro, Adi goedrej of Goedrej, Sunil Mittal of Airtel, like these we find all the people from north Indians.
What our middle class parents and most of the south indian families think is, if their children get a job in good corporate office or govt job,they think that the life of their children is beautiful. But in real sense, it doesn't work. Without lack of passion in the job or work they do, they can't grow fast in their field,if they do grow,they don't have satisfaction. That's the reason why we find domination of north Indians in all the fields. Maximum of Them enter the fields in which they are interested.
Many north Indians, don't work for money, instead they make money work for them. But we most of south Indian families end up in working for money and always end up in paying some or the other loans throughout lives.
If we want something more, suppose if we need to earn more money, we have to spend money for others. If you want to be happy, you have to make others happy, so that u will feel more happy. This is what most of billionaires do. The pay back to the society, but they still earn more and more than what they spend, that is secret of earning, and it implicates all the things which we need more. Example: Bill gates, warren buffet and Azim premji, these 3 people always stand first in philanthropy but they still stand in the same positions though they paid back huge amounts to the needy.
The conclusion here is,
1. Enter the field which u r interested in, not what others say to do especially like south indian families does to do something to earn and live.
2. Make money work for you but don't work for money.
3. If u want something more, Pay back to the society some part of it. So that u can become rich in that. Either it may be happiness, money e.t.c.,
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