Compromising on Career Goals, good or bad???
The problem with the most of fresh graduates is,they have some other career goals, but they compromise by putting a full stop to their dream goal for which they are more passionate.
This compromise on career goals,may seems to be a small issue. But, the second we compromise on our dream goal, its the start of some disguised feeling inside ourselves.
There are 2 people inside us. One always say to compromise on every thing, and other always shout at you to face the challenge darely and whether you gain or loose from it. Here we cannot say who is correct, without having a situation.
Let us take career goals. If we follow the first man named compromise, our life ends there itself, because we die inside daily thinking that, we didn't do want we actually wanted to do. Some people take this issue as a small thing, but its never. If you feel that your job is very hectic once a day, that's not the field where you are interested. If you are really interested you don't see it as an issue, you will see it as an opportunity to learn new things from that and challenge yourself to solve that challenge.
Coming to second person, Darely challenging person. These people can succeed in achieving their career goals. But succeeding in career doesn't give your life complete success. Along with success in career, you need loving people to succeed in your life. Let us take an eg. of a man, he faced all the challenges darely without compromising at any stage, but when it comes to relationship he behaved in a same formula,without compromising, and finally the result was succeeded in career but failure in Relationship.
Now, coming to the main point, many graduates are compromising on their career goals and join an organization to work in which they are not at all interested. There are some reasons for joining.
1st reason, these are very crazy insanes . Because they have some different goals in life but they do join an organization for the sake of parents force,or for shutting the mouths of people around them,who poke their parents whether their son has got a job or not or to shut the mouths of relatives who shame parents when they meet at family functions e.t.c. These employees are really funny, I call them as brainless employees because employees allow others to walk through their minds with the dirty feet of such people. Here some employees feel proud that they are great and earning a lot and they may acquire top positions in that organizations. But the fact is they don't do their work with interest, they always hate their job life saying its a hell, whether they may not tell this to outside world but they feel it to themselves once a day at least. Why should you suffer because of others?? Its your life,live to its fullest by achieving your dreams though it takes sometime, nothing will happen. If others laugh at you, let them do. But make sure that one day, those people who laughed at you should come and say that you are unique from others and you are great.That's what we need.
2nd reason lack of financial support. In these kind of people there are again two types, 1st they join the organization for temporary period but become permanent employees and 2nd type are they earn the money they required, and they will follow their heart and achieve success in life by making their dreams come true.
3rd people who have succeeded in making their dream come true. These people are passionate towards the work assigned to them and they reach to a very good position in a near future.
Now let us come to relationship life, if people who cannot compromise with the society around them, by distancing all others and eyeing only on succeeding in your dreams or making more money, cannot give you complete happiness. Best example for this is Steve jobs. Throughout his life he concentrated only on developing his company by implementation of new technologies and making more and more money. But during the last days of his life he understood that money and succeeding in career is not the only thing, there is some other thing that is maintaining a strong relationships with the family, friends and all the people around us in our society.
So in life, never compromise on your career goals, challenge yourselves push yourselves and knock the door and open the door of success. But do compromise in a relationship whether it may be friendship,love or family, always compromise in these things, otherwise opening the door of success will not make your life happy, because once you stop compromising in a relationship your door will be locked with only one person that's you. So in life, to be happy and make others happy u need to compromise in a relationship but, not compromise on your career objectives.
The problem with the most of fresh graduates is,they have some other career goals, but they compromise by putting a full stop to their dream goal for which they are more passionate.
This compromise on career goals,may seems to be a small issue. But, the second we compromise on our dream goal, its the start of some disguised feeling inside ourselves.
There are 2 people inside us. One always say to compromise on every thing, and other always shout at you to face the challenge darely and whether you gain or loose from it. Here we cannot say who is correct, without having a situation.
Let us take career goals. If we follow the first man named compromise, our life ends there itself, because we die inside daily thinking that, we didn't do want we actually wanted to do. Some people take this issue as a small thing, but its never. If you feel that your job is very hectic once a day, that's not the field where you are interested. If you are really interested you don't see it as an issue, you will see it as an opportunity to learn new things from that and challenge yourself to solve that challenge.
Coming to second person, Darely challenging person. These people can succeed in achieving their career goals. But succeeding in career doesn't give your life complete success. Along with success in career, you need loving people to succeed in your life. Let us take an eg. of a man, he faced all the challenges darely without compromising at any stage, but when it comes to relationship he behaved in a same formula,without compromising, and finally the result was succeeded in career but failure in Relationship.
Now, coming to the main point, many graduates are compromising on their career goals and join an organization to work in which they are not at all interested. There are some reasons for joining.
1st reason, these are very crazy insanes . Because they have some different goals in life but they do join an organization for the sake of parents force,or for shutting the mouths of people around them,who poke their parents whether their son has got a job or not or to shut the mouths of relatives who shame parents when they meet at family functions e.t.c. These employees are really funny, I call them as brainless employees because employees allow others to walk through their minds with the dirty feet of such people. Here some employees feel proud that they are great and earning a lot and they may acquire top positions in that organizations. But the fact is they don't do their work with interest, they always hate their job life saying its a hell, whether they may not tell this to outside world but they feel it to themselves once a day at least. Why should you suffer because of others?? Its your life,live to its fullest by achieving your dreams though it takes sometime, nothing will happen. If others laugh at you, let them do. But make sure that one day, those people who laughed at you should come and say that you are unique from others and you are great.That's what we need.
2nd reason lack of financial support. In these kind of people there are again two types, 1st they join the organization for temporary period but become permanent employees and 2nd type are they earn the money they required, and they will follow their heart and achieve success in life by making their dreams come true.
3rd people who have succeeded in making their dream come true. These people are passionate towards the work assigned to them and they reach to a very good position in a near future.
Now let us come to relationship life, if people who cannot compromise with the society around them, by distancing all others and eyeing only on succeeding in your dreams or making more money, cannot give you complete happiness. Best example for this is Steve jobs. Throughout his life he concentrated only on developing his company by implementation of new technologies and making more and more money. But during the last days of his life he understood that money and succeeding in career is not the only thing, there is some other thing that is maintaining a strong relationships with the family, friends and all the people around us in our society.
So in life, never compromise on your career goals, challenge yourselves push yourselves and knock the door and open the door of success. But do compromise in a relationship whether it may be friendship,love or family, always compromise in these things, otherwise opening the door of success will not make your life happy, because once you stop compromising in a relationship your door will be locked with only one person that's you. So in life, to be happy and make others happy u need to compromise in a relationship but, not compromise on your career objectives.
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